: of smoking.

as-salam

hye there

Currently mata I rabak sebab stay up tengok City Hunter semalam & ditambah mata gatal-gatal since past few days. Haish! *sendiri cari penyakit, kan ;)*

BTW, I saja nak buat post baru. Segan le tengok gambar sendiri kat page. *ni pun letak banyak-banyak sebab nak tunjuk baju tu kat member. Patut la tak pernah-pernah buat review ye, Pn. Anis?* Hee. 

Hari ni cuti umum. Tapi I sengaja kerja. Di samping nak menyiapkan kerja, I nak save up cuti juga. Nanti nak plan seminggu cuti lepak-lepak dengan hubby - practice duduk serumah. Haha. Previous experience was ok la. Hubby is a good housemate cum roommate. Plus, he's not cranky in the morning. It's just his smoking habits that annoys me, but since he did that in the "smoking area" in the house, I think I will tolerate it a bit ;) *kadang-kadang I keluar juga ayat drama, "Dulu masa bercinta, janji manis bertabur-tabur" - dengan mimik muka dan penuh penghayatan. Haha. Hubby sengih aje. Kalau tak dia buat-buat pengsan sambil duduk, rokok masih cantik terselit di jari - can you imagine?* Geram je tengok. 

As far as my experience is concern, we can't expect them to quit pronto. Jodoh I dengan perokok adalah sangat kuat. Antaranya, Dad, ex, hubby. Ada caranya. Tak boleh terlalu keras. My mind set is tujuan utama kita minta mereka berhenti ialah disebabkan kita nak mereka berhenti permanently. Bukan kita nak pressure mereka sampai dia belajar tipu kita. Yela, depan kita dia tak hisap a.k.a puasa, belakang kita dia hisap berkali-kali ganda. Manusia kan, dah berjaya buat satu benda salah & survive, maka akan buat lagi dan mungkin lebih teruk daripada tu. *tiba-tiba borak pasal psychology orang pulak dah ;)*

Jadi kalau I, I try to do reverse psychology. Boleh hisap rokok, tapi I minta dia kurangkan. Sehari kurangkan 2 batang dulu. Nanti dah lama-lama tambah lagi jumlah pengurangan. Sampai dia dah tak hisap rokok atau jadi social smoker je ;) Pernah jugak ada sekali tu sebelum kahwin dia dapat kurangkan sampai sekotak. Tapi entah. Now he's back to normal. So, we have to go through the process once again ;) Takpe la. Perlahan-lahan kayuh. Anak pun belum ada lagi.

But guys and smoking are really inseparable. I am fully aware of the "Janji manismu" symptom - whereby the husbands just can't keep their promise to quit smoking. No, I'm not complaining and I don't put on high hopes, but i am still hoping that he can reduce it little by little. Therefore, I will have to learn several skills to distract him from smoking - cooking and seduction skills! *wink. Haha. OK. Just joking! ;)

So, OK la. I think I better get back to work. Trying to prevent myself from dozing off & kantoi. Haha. 

Take care.

Till then. 

Daa~